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How I Learned to Trust God’s Plan as a Teenager

March 15, 2017

“God, are you SURE I can trust you? This plan does not seem to go along with what I had envisioned for my life.” Thoughts like this flooded my mind after Susan and I found out we would be moving 600 miles away from everything we knew at the end of our Freshman year.

I seriously felt as though my world was falling apart. We found out we were going to be moving in January, my mom had to move in February, my dad became depressed, Susan had her own issues, my brother and his wife and 1 month old moved in, my boyfriend broke up with me, and most of our friends stopped being friends with us. As a 9th grader this was a DISASTER. I found it extremely difficult to believe trust in God’s “beautiful plan.”

Almost immediately after we moved, I began to see the hand of God in it. Click, watch, and be encouraged!

Vlog: How I learned to trust God as a teenager even when my world was falling apart. Click To Tweet [Read more…]


Filed Under: Teen Life & Relationships Tagged: spiritual growth, spiritual truth, struggles, truth

Three Steps to Overcoming “Secret” Sins

March 9, 2017

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Amber listened intensely for her parents to click off their bedroom light. “Finally,” she exhaled, “they’re asleep.” She waited another 10 minutes, then snuck downstairs to where her parents kept the alcohol. She quietly opened the cabinet, opened a bottle, and took a swigs. Amber had been doing this for months; however, lately she noticed that she wanted more. She knew if she did more her parents would start to notice and she couldn’t risk that. “Why can’t I just quit?”

Courtney watched her sister’s car pull out of the driveway. She knew she had to be quick, so she ran upstairs to the bathroom, closed the door, took out her cell phone, pulled off her top, and began taking provocative pictures to send her boyfriend. She knew she looked hot, but deep down felt like this wasn’t the right way to make their relationship grow.

These girls are struggling with “secret” sins; sins hidden from others that they struggle with silently. There are other sins besides alcohol and sexting. You could be struggling with porn, drugs, smoking, lying, disobeying your parents, lust, or any number of things you feel that you and the person you engage in the activity with know.

Sometimes you know you need to stop, you’re just not sure how. In today’s blog, we’ll discuss three ways to overcome these sins, find forgiveness, and get your life back on track. At the end there is an action plan worksheet you can print off that will help you do this! Let’s get started!

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Filed Under: Blog, How To, Teen Life & Relationships Tagged: how to, sin, spiritual illness, spiritual truth, temptation, truth

The Truth about Sexting & Three Unintended Consequences

February 23, 2017

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*ding* Darren’s phone beeps. He immediately takes it out. It’s a message from his girlfriend, “Hey, I wish I was in your room with you right now…”.

*beep* Patrick opens his phone to see a message from his friend, “Dude, I’ll show you later what I got Kayla to send me.”

Do situations like these sound familiar to you?

Sending sexually suggestive messages, provocative pictures, or any nude pictures is considered sexting, and if you’re a teenager, the percentage is fairly high that you or one of your friends is engaging (or has engaged) in this activity.

So what’s the big deal? There’s pictures plastered EVERYWHERE of hot guys and girls showing off how sexy they are. Is it wrong for me to do it, too?

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Filed Under: Blog, Teen Life & Relationships Tagged: dating, sexting, teenage dating, temptation, truth

VLOG: Five Ways to Resist the Desire to Return after a Break up

February 21, 2017

So you did it. You broke up with someone, but the pain lingers. Sticking to the decision to break up can be difficult at times and the desire to return can strongly pull at you.

On the other hand, maybe someone broke up with you. Maybe you know it was for the best and he was a jerk anyways, but you still have a desire to go back.

Regardless of the situation, the desire to go back after a break up can be very real. In today’s vlog, we discuss five ways to combat the desire to go back after a break up. You can see all of our break up posts below the video. We hope this helps and makes you smile!

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Filed Under: Teen Life & Relationships Tagged: break up, dating, teenage dating, truth

VLOG: How to Break Up & the Usual Reactions

February 16, 2017

It’s there. That feeling in the pit of your stomach. Your conscious telling you it’s time. It’s time to break up, but how? What do you say? Where do you do it? When? How? How will they react? So many questions.

Breaking up is hard to do. That’s why I am writing this post! I’ve been there and I, like you, had all of these questions and worries. In today’s vlog, Susan and I discuss how to do this someone and the three usual reactions.

Before we dive in, I HIGHLY suggest you download our four page “Break Up Guide“.[Click the title and scroll down to find it]. It walks you through all five steps of the process: general guidelines, the actual break up, how to handle the three usual responses, what to do immediately afterwards, and what to do after a few weeks. It is very thorough and should answer all of your basic questions.

Have questions about breaking up? Click to read & download our four page guide! Click To Tweet

So here we go…

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Filed Under: Teen Life & Relationships Tagged: break up, dating, struggles, teenage dating, truth

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Welcome to our site! We are twin sisters with a passion to help provide Christians with resources to help them live a transformed life by the power of Jesus Christ.

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