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Four Reasons to Refrain from Living Together Before Marriage

October 31, 2017

“They’re ready to move from dating to cohabitating…” the Best Buy commercial blared as I looked through a website. Slightly taken aback, I scrolled to the top of the page to see the rest of the advertisement.

The commercial showcased a couple phone shopping at Best Buy; they were getting new ones because they were merging their individual phone plans due to the fact they were taking “the next step in their relationship” and moving in together.

Living together with someone you are in a romantic relationship with is called cohabitating and it’s been gaining popularity for many years. Despite this “trial run” at marriage, divorce rates among cohabitators are higher than those who did not live together prior to marriage.

In today’s blog, we’ll discuss four reasons it’s best to refrain from following this pattern.

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Filed Under: Blog, Teen Life & Relationships Tagged: dating, Engaged, life skills, relationships, temptation, truth

Pornography: A Christian Girl Struggle Too

March 21, 2017

Pornography: A Girl Struggle Too and How to Break Free| Life Struggles| Sexual Sin| Christian Struggles| Transformed4More.com| Ministry Blog for Christian Teenage Girls

The first time she saw him, she was drawn to him. He was gorgeous and had eyes only for her. He made her feel wanted and desired- like she was the only girl in the world. Soon, a secret relationship began. She craved the time with him and slowly wanted more.

As the months progressed, she began to feel that something was wrong. As much as she craved him, she was never fully satisfied, so she began spending more and more time with him. She stayed up for hours at night on her phone, which in turn, affected her waking hours.

After more than a year, her obsession became more than she could take. She knew she had to find freedom from him, but how?

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Filed Under: Blog, Teen Life & Relationships Tagged: sin, spiritual truth, struggles, temptation, truth

Three Steps to Overcoming “Secret” Sins

March 9, 2017

Three Steps to Overcoming Secret Sin| Christian Struggles| Teenage Struggles| Ministry for Teenage Girls| Transformed4More.com

Amber listened intensely for her parents to click off their bedroom light. “Finally,” she exhaled, “they’re asleep.” She waited another 10 minutes, then snuck downstairs to where her parents kept the alcohol. She quietly opened the cabinet, opened a bottle, and took a swigs. Amber had been doing this for months; however, lately she noticed that she wanted more. She knew if she did more her parents would start to notice and she couldn’t risk that. “Why can’t I just quit?”

Courtney watched her sister’s car pull out of the driveway. She knew she had to be quick, so she ran upstairs to the bathroom, closed the door, took out her cell phone, pulled off her top, and began taking provocative pictures to send her boyfriend. She knew she looked hot, but deep down felt like this wasn’t the right way to make their relationship grow.

These girls are struggling with “secret” sins; sins hidden from others that they struggle with silently. There are other sins besides alcohol and sexting. You could be struggling with porn, drugs, smoking, lying, disobeying your parents, lust, or any number of things you feel that you and the person you engage in the activity with know.

Sometimes you know you need to stop, you’re just not sure how. In today’s blog, we’ll discuss three ways to overcome these sins, find forgiveness, and get your life back on track. At the end there is an action plan worksheet you can print off that will help you do this! Let’s get started!

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Filed Under: Blog, How To, Teen Life & Relationships Tagged: how to, sin, spiritual illness, spiritual truth, temptation, truth

The Truth about Sexting & Three Unintended Consequences

February 23, 2017

***Update 2021: The question, “Will God forgive me for sexting” is the most “google searched” question that leads people to our site…if you are looking for the answer to that question, CLICK HERE.***

The truth about Sexting| Teenage Dating| Christian Dating| Struggles| Sexting| Transformed4more.com| Ministry for Teenage Girls

*ding* Darren’s phone beeps. He immediately takes it out. It’s a message from his girlfriend, “Hey, I wish I was in your room with you right now…”.

*beep* Patrick opens his phone to see a message from his friend, “Dude, I’ll show you later what I got Kayla to send me.”

Do situations like these sound familiar to you?

Sending sexually suggestive messages, provocative pictures, or any nude pictures is considered sexting, and if you’re a teenager, the percentage is fairly high that you or one of your friends is engaging (or has engaged) in this activity.

So what’s the big deal? There’s pictures plastered EVERYWHERE of hot guys and girls showing off how sexy they are. Is it wrong for me to do it, too?

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Filed Under: Blog, Teen Life & Relationships Tagged: dating, sexting, teenage dating, temptation, truth

Vlog: Six Ways to Avoid Temptation in Teenage Dating Relationships

September 8, 2016

Temptation seems to be everywhere when you’re a teenager. This volg post talks about six ways to avoid temptation in your teenage dating relationships.

It is based off of Romans 13:14 that states: “Put on the Lord Jesus Christ, leaving no provision for the flesh to fulfill its lusts.”

Provision means “to provide a way for,” so this video focuses on not providing a way for temptation. Click to watch and then share it with your friends!

[And just in case you’re like me and would rather read than watch the video, check out the infographic below….but the video has more explanation and it’s only like five minutes ;)].

If you want to know more about teenage dating, you can check out our Pinterest board and read all of the dating posts here.

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Filed Under: Teen Life & Relationships Tagged: dating, struggles, teenage dating, temptation

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