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How to get out of a Negative Dating Relationship

February 19, 2019

Are you in the midst of a negative dating relationship? Do you feel smothered? Do you feel like you can’t accomplish your future goals/dreams because of your romantic relationship?

Dating is a topic we talk about a length on this site. I even wrote a book on the topic. I discuss it frequently because, in my experience, it is one of the major facets of teen life that can send it in a downward spiral quickly.

In today’s post, I want to discuss with you how to end a negative dating relationship. Please read the following two options so you will know what route to take 🙂 and then check out the resources at the bottom of the post!

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VLOG: Five Ways to Resist the Desire to Return after a Break up

February 21, 2017

So you did it. You broke up with someone, but the pain lingers. Sticking to the decision to break up can be difficult at times and the desire to return can strongly pull at you.

On the other hand, maybe someone broke up with you. Maybe you know it was for the best and he was a jerk anyways, but you still have a desire to go back.

Regardless of the situation, the desire to go back after a break up can be very real. In today’s vlog, we discuss five ways to combat the desire to go back after a break up. You can see all of our break up posts below the video. We hope this helps and makes you smile!

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VLOG: How to Break Up & the Usual Reactions

February 16, 2017

It’s there. That feeling in the pit of your stomach. Your conscious telling you it’s time. It’s time to break up, but how? What do you say? Where do you do it? When? How? How will they react? So many questions.

Breaking up is hard to do. That’s why I am writing this post! I’ve been there and I, like you, had all of these questions and worries. In today’s vlog, Susan and I discuss how to do this someone and the three usual reactions.

Before we dive in, I HIGHLY suggest you download our four page “Break Up Guide“.[Click the title and scroll down to find it]. It walks you through all five steps of the process: general guidelines, the actual break up, how to handle the three usual responses, what to do immediately afterwards, and what to do after a few weeks. It is very thorough and should answer all of your basic questions.

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So here we go…

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Five Signs it’s Time to Break Up

February 13, 2017

It all started out so beautifully. You flirted, started dating, and everything seemed to be going perfect for awhile. Now however, something feels different. What is it? What went wrong? Are your feelings a sign it’s time to break up?

These feelings are normal. This post discusses five signs it’s time to break up and includes the free quiz “Should I Break Up with my Boyfriend?” Hopefully this will give you guidance to figure out the next step in your relationship. So, here we go, five signs it’s time to break up. Please read all the way to the end of the post for extra resources as well!

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For the Brokenhearted: 5 Tips to Help the Hurt

August 22, 2016

For the brokenhearted. Five ways to help the hurt. Transformed4more.com

Psalm 34:18 (NIV)

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted
and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

To all of you out there who are suffering with a broken heart from a break up, I want to tell you as strongly as I can in words that I wish with all my heart that I could reach through this screen and hug you.

Not one of those two second hugs but a hug for as long as you needed it hug. A “it’s OK to fall apart and cry” hug. I wish I could look you in the eye and tell you that it is OK to let it out.

Emotional pain is nothing to ignore. Avoiding it will gnaw at you. I do believe in being strong, but there are also times to ugly cry with abandon…

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