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How to Pray for Our Leaders

How to Pray for Our Leaders| Transformed4More.com| Christian| Teenagers| America| USA

I admit it may be odd to have a post like this on a website geared toward teenage girls. So why post it? Well, with the political upheaval and turmoil presently running rampant in our country, that praying for our leaders proves an important topic to discuss. Trust me, as a teenager, politics wasn’t really on my radar;  I couldn’t even vote; however, decisions being made now will affect our country for years to come.

Despite your take on our new president and his decisions, he, the VP, the Cabinet, all the way down to local law enforcement need our prayers.

A few days ago, I received a prayer guide in the mail yesterday from the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association that walks through how to biblically pray for our leaders, and I would like to share it with you in this post. Our leaders, and our country, need our prayers.

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VLOG: 5 Things to Remember when You Feel Left Out

*** UPDATE for 2020: Just so you know, this is our #1 most viewed video on YouTube BY FAR. So, if you ended up here, you’re not the only one who has ever felt this way, and we are glad you’re here!!***

Have you ever felt left out?

Have you ever gotten on social media and seen pictures of your friends the night before all hanging out and you were not invited? Have you ever overheard friends making plans for the weekend and know you’re not included?

Being left out is not a fun feeling and Susan and I know this from first hand experience. You may be thinking, “How could you feel left out? You’re twins?!” OH TRUST US, we feel you’re pain. Watch the vlog below to hear our stories and five things to remember when you feel left out. You’ll feel better after watching. I promise!

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Five Ways to Avoid Relationship Envy

Five ways to avoid relationship envy especially during the holidays| Teenage Girls Ministry| Transformed4More.com

Have you ever seen couples together during the holidays while single and felt a sense of envy?

Seeing happy couples is virtually inescapable during the holidays. They’re on TV, at school, family get-togethers, and walking down the street. On TV, they’re getting awesome gifts and at school you hear girls talk about what they are getting their boyfriends and vice versa.

It can be hard to watch and listen to this and not feel like you’re missing out. I’ve been there, and I’ve felt what you felt- that tinge of desire to get something on the last day of school to make you feel special.

Be not dismayed! This post is going to discuss five ways to avoid this feeling, especially during the holidays.

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How to Avoid an Abuser in Your Future Relationships

Potential Abuser| Cycle of Violence| Teenage Dating| Girls Ministry| Transformed4More.comOne of the biggest questions I had when my abusive relationship ended was, “How do I avoid this ever happening to me again?”

UPDATE: I have created a quiz entitled “Quiz: Could my crush be a potential abuser?” that you can access in our free resource library that will help with this as well; it has a bit more than what is included in this post!*

After reading many, many articles and doing some massive soul searching and deconstructing how my abuser and I first began to date, I found some common threads.

Below are three action items to do that will help you avoid getting into an abusive relationship.

*There is a video at the end if you prefer that*

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Four Ways to Combat the Fear of Missing Out

Christian Teenager| Fear of Missing Out| Teenage Girl Ministry| Transformed4More.com

As a Christian teen, do you ever fear that you’re missing out on life sometimes?

Have you ever overheard people at school talk about a party they went to over the weekend? Tons of alcohol and almost getting caught by the police?

What about them doing pills or having sex and the “thrill” that is involved?

If you go to public high school, and sometimes even if you don’t, you will hear a consistent flow of these types of conversations. With our sinful nature, these stories can sound enticing and exciting. What a thrill it would be to do those things.

You may think to yourself, “Too bad I’m a Christian and am missing out on all the fun…”

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