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Two Verses to Remember when You Need Encouragement

November 13, 2018

Encouragement. It’s something I definitely need at this point in my life.

Lately, I have been plagued by the feeling that nothing I do matters because it doesn’t seem that anyone cares about what I do.

I know that this is a “straight up” lie because raising tiny humans matters. The work I do on this blog for the Lord matters. Being a good wife matters. Shining the light of Christ in a dark world matters. However, from time to time, I just get discouraged.

However, there are two verses that I keep referring back to to help me through this time, so I thought it would be appropriate to share with you.

The video below is approximately three minutes and I hope that you feel better after you watch it 🙂

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Five Signs it’s Time to Break Up

February 13, 2017

It all started out so beautifully. You flirted, started dating, and everything seemed to be going perfect for awhile. Now however, something feels different. What is it? What went wrong? Are your feelings a sign it’s time to break up?

These feelings are normal. This post discusses five signs it’s time to break up and includes the free quiz “Should I Break Up with my Boyfriend?” Hopefully this will give you guidance to figure out the next step in your relationship. So, here we go, five signs it’s time to break up. Please read all the way to the end of the post for extra resources as well!

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VLOG: 5 Things to Remember when You Feel Left Out

January 17, 2017

*** UPDATE for 2020: Just so you know, this is our #1 most viewed video on YouTube BY FAR. So, if you ended up here, you’re not the only one who has ever felt this way, and we are glad you’re here!!***

Have you ever felt left out?

Have you ever gotten on social media and seen pictures of your friends the night before all hanging out and you were not invited? Have you ever overheard friends making plans for the weekend and know you’re not included?

Being left out is not a fun feeling and Susan and I know this from first hand experience. You may be thinking, “How could you feel left out? You’re twins?!” OH TRUST US, we feel you’re pain. Watch the vlog below to hear our stories and five things to remember when you feel left out. You’ll feel better after watching. I promise!

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For the Brokenhearted: 5 Tips to Help the Hurt

August 22, 2016

For the brokenhearted. Five ways to help the hurt. Transformed4more.com

Psalm 34:18 (NIV)

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted
and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

To all of you out there who are suffering with a broken heart from a break up, I want to tell you as strongly as I can in words that I wish with all my heart that I could reach through this screen and hug you.

Not one of those two second hugs but a hug for as long as you needed it hug. A “it’s OK to fall apart and cry” hug. I wish I could look you in the eye and tell you that it is OK to let it out.

Emotional pain is nothing to ignore. Avoiding it will gnaw at you. I do believe in being strong, but there are also times to ugly cry with abandon…

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